Sex is meant to be awesome.
One-sided intercourse isn’t awesome at all.
I’m so, so tired of reels on this platform from both women and men telling wives to have more sex, because we need to understand men’s sexual needs.
Having sex frequently does not mean that she is feeling close to him or that she is experiencing pleasure.
And telling women in marriages where their own sexual needs are ignored that they need to just keep caring for men’s?
Well, if women do that, then within 10-15 years sex often dries up entirely because she can’t keep pretending anymore.
Women: if sex isn’t awesome for you, let’s figure out why! Sometimes it’s just a minor fix of figuring out how your body works. Sometimes it’s a major one because your husband has entitlement issues. But don’t keep going through the motions because you feel obligated. That backfires, big time, in the long run.
